Showing posts with label Fil-am married. Show all posts
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Monday, August 11, 2008

Princess Love Story





I met J (my husband) through the connivance of my brother-in-law who was then engaged to my elder sister. My brother-in-law asked for my email address thinking that he will add me on his Yahoo! Messenger. But, the other way around it turned out differently and I did not have any clues what he did to my e-mail add, but the next couple of days the budding of fate unfurled along the way.

It was on September 14, 2004 when I got a message from a guy I do not know. At that time, I was about to finished my Nursing Licensure Exam Review in the Philippines. I came home and I was jubilant, but when I opened my inbox there was this message waiting for me that absolutely blown me away. It goes like this, "Hi Princess, I hope this is your email address. I wanted to write you and let you know that I probably won't be around tonight to chat because I am helping M do some stuff for work. But I am still thinking of you and when we talk next I'll tell you about my dreams last night! Anyway, I hope your studying is going well. Talk to you soon, J". I was skeptical at first who this guy was, so I emailed him back and later on we were exchanging e-mails. Naturally, that is how it began. We started typing on IM and one thing lead to another. There were many interesting things happened to me since I knew him online. I do not have any hints as to what he looked like and what were his intentions for me. We were just simply exchanging emails and doing online chat on a daily basis for about an hour or two. We talked a lot and it became obvious that we had a lot in common. We became more and more impressed with each other as the days and weeks went by. We put all our thoughts into e-mails and IM since that was less expensive and more effective for us. Because of time differences, we have had situations like when he went to bed when I was waking, or when we talked he was getting ready to sleep, but we were still on the line. If we could not make it online, then we wrote e-mails about anything. It often happened that we thought of the same things, we felt with common tie and that we are important to one another.

We tried to give as much as possible our real selves and a taste of our real existence. One day, he told me that he will be coming over to the Philippines 3 months after we crossed our path. The much awaited meeting happened when we finally met each other in person on the 16th of December 2004. I was in cloud nine at that time. It was an ecstatic feeling I should say. The moment I saw him going out from the domestic airport I felt there were butterflies in my stomach, nervous and yet excited. I have not felt like this ever since, not until when I met and saw J approaching me. He was smiling from a distance and his smile captivated me. We reached each other and we stood in an embrace for a long time. I was filled with a wonderful sense of calm and happiness after finally seeing each other. During his visit, we learned many things about each other and we enjoyed every moment we spent together. It was surreal! We had experienced beautiful and unforgettable moments that will be forever treasured in our hearts. Our love travels the distance both in time and miles and our love for each other still grows stronger everyday. God is really great because He knows what our hearts desired. He provided a way to bind us for lifetime happiness and never failed to lead us to our destiny. We are going 4 years on September, since then and every moment had been filled with nothing but happiness. We are very much in love with each other. J is my first and my last love. I was hoping that somewhere who knows where; there is a man who is waiting just for me and I have found him.

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Thursday, June 5, 2008

Gen-gen Love Story



Mabuhay! My husband and I met through one dating site called cherryblossoms.com but before we met, let me tell you about our love story. One time, I was chatting online in CB site and one guy wanted to chat with me named Tom (my husband now) and I get excited as I saw his picture and he looks handsome and smart through his some information of his profile. I wanted to chat with him that time but my computer suddenly freeze and I saw the invitation chat box but I cannot reply anymore and I said to myself, “annoying.” I had decided that time to reboot my computer and when I turned on, I hurriedly went back to that site again and looked up if he was online in there and I did try clicking his name but I still had a problem. I decided to send him an email and that was on May 8, 2004 and I still remember it, funny huh? In the morning, I got his reply and I felt happy and I was hoping one day I will meet him in person. We kept sending an email for about a month and chatting online and he decided to meet me in person.
On month of June 2004 I met him in person and he visited me in my hometown where I grew up Tacloban City , Leyte Philippines . I was 21 years old that time when I met him and I will be 26 this coming October. We did not clicked for the 1st time we met since he thought I was young and he wanted to meet older than 21. When I met him on the 1st day, we talked alot and he talks about medical and makes me think he is a smart guy and I thought myself and wish “I hope this is the man for me.” We spent about 4 days in my hometown and he decided to go to Cebu and he wanted me to bring in there but I refused and I just said to him, “maybe one day we will meet again.” Before he went to Cebu, I told him, I am going to Switzerland (one country in Europe ). While he was in Cebu , he kept calling me and it seems gives me hope that one day we will meet and will be together. I did not really thought of him anymore as I thought there is no hope since we did not click for the 1st time. When the time goes by, my brother and I trying to get our Swiss visa in Manila but Tom (my husband) kept calling me almost everyday.

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Chi-chi- Love Story

Hello everyone! i met my hubby in Bahrain of April 2003, i was working there as OFW ( Fastfood Worker) and he was on deployment from a Navy ship USS Nimitz as beach-det.One of my fil-am friend is the reason behind of meeting an American guy, coz they work same location but different ship.At that time, im not really interested of having another ralationship, because i was still mending my broken heart from a guy whom i loved so much.The first meeting was set-up on a birthday party from a another Pilipino friend.So, when i saw him for the first time, i told myself hmmm..not my ideal man, because he's wearing eyeglasses.I was so nervous.And it took 3wks for me to decide to go with him for a dinner date ( Chili's Bahrain)but I bring my co-worker for my safety na rin..alam nyo na!!It was very fast courtship..then 3mons being MU, he filled for a fiancee visa, because he wants me to stop working and go home to my country, and i have to break my contract, so he has to pay my Air Fare.Everything was final, he has to go back in the ship while im waiting for my flight sked for PI. It was a heartbreaking separation because we dont know when we gonna see each other again.By the time i was already at home, he called me, ask how far is Singapore from my place? i told him 3hrs flight only from Manila. so he send right away money because he want me to travel in Singapore to be with him. that's the saddest part again being away from your love one, it was happen in Sept 2003..But we have a daily communication, chat, phonecalls 3-5x a day coz its free for him.And we patiently waiting for our papers to be approved. By Feb 2004, i got my packet 4, got med and interview sked buy April, then by May 14, 2004 i fly to US destination is LAX coz he was stationed in San Diego at that time, so he gonna pick me up at the airport.We've been together now for more than 3yrs blessed to a beautiful girl.

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Saturday, May 17, 2008

Story of buttercup


We first met through yahoo, we started to chat and get to know more about each other. Never in
We first met through yahoo, we started to chat and get to know more about each other. Never in my wildest dream that i expect that our relationship will blossom and we will fall in love with each other...Everything that happen in our lives were unexpected. I guess it is destiny that brought us together. He came into my life at an unexpected time and place...Something that is so amazing when i think about those years i was praying and wishing that someday ill meet the right person.

I began to appreciate him more when he started to expressed his feelings and surprised me by sending me white roses and perfume. It was an unexpected gift and i never even thought he was that sweet and romantic. I knew that he had a good sense of humor and a very intellectual person, but i never thought he is also that thoughtful and romantic. I will never forget that day since the first Filipino dialect that he learn and written on the card is maganda....It really did touched my heart when i read it.

He began to show his interest on me and eventually he started sharing with me his dreams and ambitions. Then he decided to meet me in person. The first time i meet him it was a mixed emotions of happiness and fear. Happiness coz i will finally meet the person whom I have learn to love and care for this past couple of months. Fear because i wanted things to work out fine and I wanted to keep our friendship no matter what may happen after our first meeting...The moment he went out and was looking for me at the domestic airport. I started to feel tense but i tried to control my emotions and pretend that i am not actually feeling anything at all lol He smiled at me and hold my hand and then as i was talking i feel a sudden relief as he started to appreciate what i wear that day...He make me feel comfortable like it was not the first time we met in person. He right away greeted my parents and gave them a handshake. They talk for for a couple of minutes till we decided to take him to the hotel where he stayed for a week.

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Monday, May 12, 2008

Gen-gen last journey


On month of Oct. 2004 after the wedding of my sister, on the next day, somebody calling and I thought that was my sister’s friend and they are speaking in English as my sister has Hungarian and Malaysian friends. So, I did not bother to asked her who she talking with. On that day, my sister told me that we are going to meet her husband’s friends and to have some coffee drinks somewhere. I told my sister, I am not going since I was tired of her wedding or helping cleaning up but she resisted me to go with them. So, I decided to go and she said to me I need to wear nice clothes (ha-ha) and I remember it was raining that time and windy and when we arrived in Schweizerhof hotel I was looking around but there is nobody there and I thought we are going to drink coffee with my husbands friends and while we were waiting, I saw a guy look like Tom and I said to myself “he looks like my boyfriend” and he was walking towards me and I was really surprised as he said “hello baby” (what? is that you?) I cannot really believe that time my sister kept secret on me by not telling me that Tom is coming over to visit me. When I saw him in the hotel, I was really surprised and that was the happiest moment that I never forget and he did proposed to marry me and then the 5 of us did go to have a drink and he carried me and that was fun. Since I met him the 1st time I liked him already and we met on the 2nd and I had feelings for him and the 3rd time I met him, I fall in love with him and I cannot resist to say “I love you too and I do” by the time he proposed to me.
On Nov. 11, 2004 my brother and I went back to Philippines and waiting my fiancée U.S visa and by the time I was waiting my visa, my husband visited me again on Feb. 2005 in Philippines . I arrived here in U.S.A on May 2005 and I am over 3 years now living here in the States. We have been married 3 times and 1st time in Las Vegas on May 2005, 2nd wedding in Sunken Gardens Florida , 3rd time in Philippines . My husband and I currently residing in Florida, USA and married for over 3 years now, happily married, we travel sometimes anywhere here in the States and anywhere in the world, no kids but planning to have 2-3 kids. There is nothing more that I can ask for as I am married to a man whom I love and to spend my life with and it is nice to be loved somebody who cares about you. Thanks for reading my long true love story. May God bless us all and you may find the man/woman that you are looking for. Wish you luck and happiness. Be happy!

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Saturday, May 10, 2008

How it started stories of Jstmarfz

It started in a crowded chartroom (MAY 2005) full of different unknown people. Some were just there to have fun, some were there to find someone to talk with sense and humor. As I kept looking, there was a name catches my attention. I started saying hi taking chances if he will reply or will just ignore me. With my surprise, he replied nicely and we talked while seeing each other on cam. Meeting him that day took those sad feelings i had and changed my sober face to a happy face which i can't explain. Within that day, couple of hours we already shared a lot together as if that we known each other for so long. He shared his laughter to me to brighten up my day, to cheer me up as he knew i was really down that time. We parted by saying goodbye without knowing if we're able to talk again. In the next day, as i opened my YM a message from him was a surprise! That day i believed we'll be good friends.

As days...months past by, i realized i had this feelings for him i cant deny. I kept it to myself, afraid to tell him that he might go away. I was so eager to talk to him everyday as if he was the only one can make me smile. Until we confessed about our feelings to each other. I was overwhelmed knowing he felt the same for me. We became lovers. I thought happiness that i felt with him was endless, but i was wrong. Several times with teary eyes, losing hopes and feeling clueless.

How many times we had fights, break ups, tears that have been wasted because of nonsense arguments. Still, we accepted each other's fault. We forgive and forget. We go on with our life together though, we just see each other's smile on cam. Asking ourselves when can we be together. Hold each other's hand, feel the real hugs and kisses that we were longing for, starting to build our dreams together.

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Wednesday, March 12, 2008

Stories from WHOA


Q; Where did you met him? Is it online dating site?
A;I met him online in yahoo chat room Dec 2005.



Q; How did you feel about him after your first conversation?

A; nothing but a simply fun chat to anyone, i had before...... cause that time i was had online bf but i got rid of him,
"was engaged with someone who promised "to be with me but for some reasons he got so many excuses and i got fed up.Then,i went to yahoo chat room and that was last December 2005 the first month i talked to him online.

Q;When was your engagement? After few months we decided to engaged online and that was February 14,2006.... After a long months chatting online we decided to settle down.

Q;When did he arrived in the Philippines? He came in the Philippines last April 13,2007 @Cebu International airport by then we proceed to the Consular office get his Legal Capacity. And after security all documents that is needed for the wedding the Local registrar office told us after 10 days of waiting we can get married in my place.

A message from WHOA/Florida - A guy love really exist and computer is the best way to find someone but a hint be true to yourself. thank you

Q; How old is he?

A; he is 53 i am 31

Q; When & Where did u married?

A; get married on
yes April 24,2007, engaged online February 14 2006

Q; Is he sweet ?

A; he use to send me flowers from online.

Q;Wow it's great sis,congratz sis,well what can i say"Best wishes" and see you soon.
A small message from me "if they can do it? why can't i?"

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Saturday, March 8, 2008

Story of ate Genny from NC


Hello here i am again wants to share another story of my life before i came here in USA. Well, take a deep breath because the story starts like these. Being a working student is not easy specially when nobody help you except God. Night and day are just the same. Year 2003 i decided to put my profile in www.single.com hoping that i can find somebody not only to help me but also for long time partner. I am praying to the Lord for guidance and help to solve my problem. I work full time in that 1st semester of 2003. It`s hard because they put me in the Project Heal as an Assistant Dean of Mommy DelaCruz. It`s not easy to deal with new students especially came from rich families. There are time that i slept 2am to have inspection @ 1am and rooming the dormitory with the guards. Almost every night i slept 2-3 hours and at day time i am so sleepy and tired but i need to accomply my responsibilities. I cried sometimes especially when there are students who cant came back to the dormitory when they are out campus. One time they blame me because 1 of the students did not came back to the Project Heal and i dont know where that student. Hay !!! i really cried and worried it hurts but God helped me and cared what happened. I loved my worked there in Project Heal eventhough there are lots of problems and it hurts my feelings. I learned to loved my occupants there and hopefully they wil become succesful in their career. Eventhough i am so busy in my work but still i have time to check my email to see if there are emails. There are lots who are interested of my profile and one of them was my husband Stephen. He wrote me a simple letter and adviced me to take it easy. He offered me to make him as my comforter and advicer. His very nice to me and everytime i read my mail from him i am comforted and happy. I told him about my life being a working student. I told him about my schooling, lovelife and everything. It seems that it helps to relieve whatever hurt i have. When i went back to the dormitory i felt happy and excited. We are M.U at first. But actually that time i have a boyfriend and he knew it. He always advice me to take it easy of life and pray to God that everything will be alright and it did. We stop writing each other when he knew i am engaged to somebody. I felt bad that time and went back to the dorm lonely. But i decided to give his email address to my friend Letty. They exchange emails and Letty told me that they just friends. But one day Letty told me that she stop writing Stephen because they have misunderstanding.
Well, the story did not end that way... Almost end of the semester something happened that my relationship to my black American broke. IT did not worked out eventhough that almost 2 years ang relationship. So, i tried to aim someone that is very responsible in a relationship no matter what. I found myself writing back Stephen and he was surprised but i explained everything. We chat and exchange emails a lot. I am impressed of what i observed about him. He was nice and very approachable. He helped me and he sent money to pay my debt in the college. He decided to come in the Philippines eventhough there are lots of threats to the Americans to come. The USA government warned them not to come in Mindanao where lots of Muslims. He told his plan to his church and prayed for the trip. Also his brothers and sisters knew about his plan. One of his brothers dont like him to pursue his plan maybe his afraid for Steve. He always called me in the Philippines and i loved that. I felt something nice inside my heart that i did not felt before but i dont know why so i am excited of his coming and also scared of what happened next. My friends there in Project Heal told me that i will do the best i can to show respect and honesty to meet him in Manila. I miss my PH friends..hay MVC muahhhhhh

Thanks ate genny for letting me use your story be posted my blogs site....muahhh muahhh muahhh thank you so much..if you want to know her more visit here blogs.... ate Genny

Thursday, February 28, 2008

Based on a dreams..

[Chanda wrote on Wed, 06 June 2007 07:48]How we met?hmmmmm...it's quite a long story :d . Allow me to detail it to you :lol: . When i was in my twenties, i forgot the exact age, i had a dream. My dream was, My wedding ...the weird part was, i don't even know who's my groom. I was in my room waiting for my time to walk on the aisle. I kept asking my friends, who is my husband? i don't know him? i want to see him,just pls open the door and let me see him. But my friends won't let me. I tried to be patient waiting for the time to see him. They said that when that door will be open he's just there standing waiting for you...and yes the door did open and i saw a man standing wearing a "Barong"(name of cloth style) staring at me smiling and proud. I was shocked! I saw a foreigner, a big man with a mustache!...and then i woke up! He remained in my dream for years. I kept praying to God to lead me to the man He handpicked just for me and preserve us both until His perfect time. On the other part,when my husband was about 9 years old,he asked God for a wife.I can't imagine a boy asking God for a wife!lol..He asked God, Lord tell me what her name is so when time comes I'll be able to identify her. God remained silent...But one afternoon,he had a dream. He dreamed that he's with an asian lady. She was smiling to him and he believes that in that dream that lady was so special to him.He woke up and that lady remained in his mind.
Years pass,he had 5 Asian relationships coz he believed that his wife will be asian (but no sexual thing :d ). About me,i never had any relationship,just kept on praying for my man that God will protect him from any harm and wrong relationships. I made a commitment to God that I will only marry at the age of 30-33..if i'm still single at 34,maybe it is God's will for me to remain single and i will accept that...And i will only marry if i'll met a man who will courageously pursue my heart and never give up despite of any circumstances. When i was 30, enjoying my single life, God plant loneliness in my heart and that my heart starts longing for someone. That time too Gary was seriously asking God to show him his future bride coz he wanted to get married. Until one day i got a call from my bestfriend that her sister gave my e-mail add to her officemate. She knew that i don't like being paired to a foriegner. When i checked my e-mail,i recieved a message from him,he wanted to be friend of me,so i said yes why not. I learned that he was 6 and a half years younger than me,So when i knew that he is younger than me i lie low ..but he kept on writing, I had so many alibis as if in work and all, "he never give up on me". 2 weeks exchanging e-mails then i asked his picture, When i saw his picture..i turned off again coz i don't want a man with moustache as in many times i run away from him...but i wonder why he never gave up. He told me that he saw already my pictures through my friend.I'm confident coz i know i am pretty at that pictures ..lol..He kept on writing and texting me until one day he asked if he can courted me. My first reaction, I don't like you! But i felt the need to bow before God and pray and lift up to him all my fears. I'm afraid of foreigners,If we get married then, he's people will be my people, i will speak english all the time lol and worst, i will leave my family. .. I hate long distance relationship. But God spoke to my heart. He assured me through His WOrd in Isaiah 27:3 that He is our God who will watch over us, water us continually and protect us day and night so no one will harm us. I trusted the word of God and i allowed him to court me. 2 months of courting, i was growing to like and love him,pero sigurista pa rin ako kc i wanted to give my heart to the man who deserve it. I told him one day na icut muna namin ang aming communication for 30days and i invite him na together we will seek God and His will for us in prayers. He made it clear that he's courting me as a wife!, not a girlfriend. So very serious.... He agreed with me na no communication for 30days and we spent our time to God in prayers. All throughout 30 days, God used His word,other people and even circumstances to speak to my heart that Chanda the door is now open..and I remembered my dream. I remembered that it was him standing at the door smiling and proud waiting for me. I cried for joy and after 30days he called me and i accept his love for me. After one year,he came here in the Philippines and married me. We were very happy and fulfilled. One day i asked him, why he never gave up?..and he simply answered me, remember when i was a boy i asked God for a wife and i asked God her name? God never told me her name, but he showed me the picture..You were the woman i saw in my dream smiling at me and were so very happy, that's why i never gave up! haaaaayyyy!!! I wish you're enjoying my love story sorry it's too long.....Now, I'm looking forward to be with him as i am patiently waiting for my interview on July 13. Indeed, God is the Author of our Romance.. He is the only man for me, my first love, first kiss, first everything..lol..

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Tuesday, February 26, 2008

Story from Lyn in Texas...

Lyn wrote on Sat, 27 October 2007 15:23
The year 2006 was the luckiest year between me and alex...his been sending me a lot of messages before but sad to say that im so busy on that time thats why i didn't reply him often...but whenthe time comes
when he asked me if im interested to be as one of his friend
and communicate to him and i know his
getting mad already and thats the time
that we communicate with each other much..
Sweetie Alex is such a man with word of
honor, he is always makes me feel
important in every he do...All i know is
that at that time i am falling in love
with him, we always keep in touch with
each other, he calls me every now and
then and we almost talked for how many
hours, imagining yourself chatting to someone for almost 2-7 hours and wow i am so in love already. June 24, 2006,when i finally say YES to him.I am so happy and i know i made him happy too.For how many months we've been in our relationship i never feel that he ignore
me, indeed he shows how much i mean to him and im so happy to feel that.
Alex says: "I fell more in love with her over the next couple of months and I
knew I wanted to spend the rest of my life with her. I actually asked her if
she wanted to get married in the future on "August 24, 2006". She agreed to marry
me soon on that day. So, we planned for me to visit her in the Philippines in
October 2006"
I've been so nervous meeting him at the airport, my friends and i were waiting
for him.Finally he came and of course im hiding coz i saw him so attractive and
so wow i can't believe his their standing in front of me. Standing of u a
handsome and a outrageous guy asking him to kiss him and hug him....Wow im so
nervous but he never showed me any negative thing for me think that im
rejected but he shows how he really is in computer even in person.A couple of
hours ago and im ready to talk to him without any shameness and of course as
his girlfriend. I love talking to him so much and we get to know each other more
and more. On that moment i felt that im so complete to be with him and i know
and ready to be committed to him. I never regret knowing him and im so proud
of him indeed.When his here we spent time together and
finally to have an agreement that we will spend the rest of our life together
and build a family soon.All i can say to you sweetie is i promise to be a good mother to your kids
and a good wife too..I love you and i will spend the rest of my life to you,
ill take care of you and growing old with you.You give me strength in
everything i do and you show me so much love that i never ever expect to feel. I
love you for being you and i love you how you love me....Promise me that you will take care of
yourself and don't you ever change. ..Hope and pray that we will be together
forever soon.......GOD BLESS!!! I LOVE YOU SO MUCH SWEETIE....


so much inlove with your loved,
sweetie lyn

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Friday, February 22, 2008

Fil-am stories of Ern


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Singapore year 2003,I met my husband in Singapore,2003 and then i was really shocked that time.I got flowers,It was deliver the house where i stayed.NO NAME and NO SENDER and WHERE it came from that's why i'm really surprised.The second time he gave me flowers thru my friend.I asked again...but i'm consistent untill she said so..she told me it is given by a foreigner.That is the start of our love story after that we went to a disco together always...then there's a beauty contest..I don't have a sponsored and he offered me help...then he courted me.

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When he got internet access at home he bought "webcam" for me to see him. As we got to know each other very deeply by chatting everyday I told him my concern about trusting hard on men because of my past failed relationships. But he told me he will spent his life proving his sincerity. Which he never failed to do to this day. He introduced and let me talked to his brother thru voice chat. As well as also introduced me to his parents seein me on webcam. That's where he swept me off my feet. For the first time I felt my fears and doubts had vanished. Every word he said don't give me a single thought of a doubt. 'Twas the first time I had a complete trust to a man despite the distance. Since that day I had first chatted with him I always woke up with a smile on my face. We both can't stand a day without chatting. Even if how tired he is from working 12 hours a day he would not sleep till he can chat with me. He just doesn't know how he really touched me with those deeds. He made me feel I'm the most beautiful woman in the world. With the 12 hour difference, sometimes I had to wake up early hour in the morning to chat with him so as not to missed a day chatting with him. That is to let him feel he deserves my time and attention.
We talked about getting married and both agreed we'll decide till he was here to make things sure if we'll still liked each other in person. As for me marriage is a lifetime commitment. I don't want to end up regretting for rushing on things.
For over six months of chatting everyday I had finally waited his arrival at the airport on Nov. 8, 2006. I don't know how to explain it but while waiting for him I don't feel even just a little nervous. I supposed I would since it would be the first time I got to see him. What I felt that day was I am only waiting for someone I have known for long. Well maybe because we chatted for almost 7 months. As I saw him got off the plane I could not believed how he looked more handsome than on webcam. His face were glowing. I can see the happiness on it. When we hugged it was liked I hugged someone I did missed so much. Strange but true.

He stayed for 15 days and those days I'm with him were a total bliss. For the first time in my life I felt complete. 'Twas like the empty part of me was filled. 'Twas the first time I felt everything was right in my world. My happiness that time was undescribable. All I knew in my heart I have found the man I would gladly spent the rest of my life. The man God sent me to enjoy the beauty of His love. We attended mass together to thank God for giving us each other. As we believed from the start God destined us to be together forever. We both prayed for his continues blessing and guidance in our relationship.
At night while he sleeps I would stare at his face and could not help to wept silently because of joy. I can't believe how God would bless me so much with the kind of man I got. He possessed all the qualities of a man I need in my life. He is just made perfect for me. He is like an angel sent to protect and love me. He made me feel rich by his love. He is just an exceptional man. It never crossed to my mind I will find the man I thought before only in my dreams existed. But I have him now. I could not thank God enough for him. If before I shed tears because of pain, now it is because of joy.
Before he left he did something that brought me into tears. He handed me his debit/credit card which I never thought he would do. I could not believed it so I asked him "Do you trust me this much?" He answered, "In my heart, mind and soul you are already my wife. And what is mine is yours." That really moved me. He was always like that. Never failed to show me how much he loves me without condition from the day I met him online. I am overwhelmed by his love. On my part I did my best to be worthy of his love. To not break his trust. My only goal is to make him happy. Because his happiness is mine. He is worth my love and life. I could not wait to be with him again so I can show him how much he means to me. How much I love him. And how much joy he brought to my life.
When he went back home I felt sad for we will be apart for months. But till to this day we never failed to let each other feel our love and devotion despite our distance. We both know our happiness will be complete when we will be together forever fulfilling the dreams that we made after my visa is approved. I could not picture out myself without him anymore. He is my sweetest blessing and the only man I would give my love and care for the rest of my life.
I have learned that true love has no boundaries. That God will continue working in amazing ways in each people's lives. He deserves to be praised all the time. I offer to Him the joy that I felt in my heart. To God be the glory.
And to my sweetest blessing - Mark, I will never trade you for anything in this world. Words are not enough to express how much I truly love you. How much tears I shed because of the joy you brought to my life. I vow to spend the rest of my life just loving you because you are worthy of it. I will love you till the end of time! I thank God for you!


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Fil-am stories/pinaymama/Michigan,Usa


Last week of July 2004, I'm just at home, watching " Kris and Korina" show (one of the ABS-CBN shows)that time when I heard the postman beeping at our gate, but I just ignored him, rather, I just stayed at the couch and relaxing while watching TV, and so my mom whom already outside was the one who picked up the letters. After a few minutes, my mom handed me the USPS mail that said, it's from Michigan, USA, so I opened it and started to read the letter, I thought my sister was the one who throw in my information to this guy but no, he found me at one of the dating website called "filipinaladies.com", enclosed photos from him which at first glance, I found him attractive. I was amazed by his looks, he's wafo"handsome means wafo", "over excite means kilig"kilig to the bone sad ko that time, and strangely, I have this feeling that I wanted to talk to him right away, so I went online and was looking for him on msn messenger, by then we started chatting and begun to know each other more, he a family oriented man, God fearing and lovable enough to drive me more to him. We've been drawn to each other as the time goes by.

On the first week of August 2004, it was one of the usual time he would call me, but I felt some excitement during this time, suprisingly, he proposed on the phone, I felt this shivering, excitement, joy and floatable during that time, I couldn't say any words except that I noticed this whopping smile on my face and without hesitation I said, "YES, I will marry you", (so easy"means "dali ra no?"dali-a ra no? (in just a minute)wa ra'y minuto ba ang (answer'means "tubag")tubag! naghuna-huna (think"huna-huna" means")ko oy, for just a few seconds

So as the times goes by, he planned and decided to come and visit me. So last October 2004, he came to the Philippines just to meet me and my family and of course to make his proposal a reality. At the Davao City Airport, I waited for him with anxiety, I was so eager to see him soon to see how he looks like in person, I was thrilled and excited! When the time he finally came out from the exit gate at the airport, I was amazed and got teary-eyed, I couldn't believe he was there, my heart beats so fast as he walks along towards me, he hugged me so tight as in for a few minutes, dugay dugay sad 'to ba and then he kissed me sa cheek ha! kamo jud! then, (nauwaw na hinoon sad ko gamay) means " i'm shy a litle' kay there's a lot of buzzes sa "palibot,"means" everywhere.. but the thing I noticed on that very moment is that he holds my hand so tight when we walked back to our (jeep)jeepney. I knew from that moment that I found the one I would spend the rest of my life with. This is real! This is not a dream that he was here!

Soon after, we went to the hotel where he asked me to marry him and my life begun that day. So we hugged so tight that it seems like it was the most wonderful moment of my life. So, October 20, 2004 we're officially engaged. Then, we went to our house and had our first dinner together,as well as with my family, and spent more time together, we joined a Marriage Counselling Seminar during this visit and we took some pictorials as well for our wedding montage. By last week of October, he has to go back home, the moment that I hate the most that made me so sad, I cried a lot during the night because I missed him so much because I came with him to Manila and by the next morning, I'll drop him off at the Ninoy International Airport for departure, but still I found myself cheerless and empty. After a day, we started chatting again, we talked a lot over the phone mostly everyday, and changing emails while I was pretty busy planning for our wedding soon.

By December 2004, the time has come, I went to Davao City Airport to pick him up and his dad and there's something happened during that day, they came later than I expected, they're not on the plane that he said they were on and even the time was not right neither, so I had so much fear in my heart, some anger, disappointment and uneasiness that he doesn't show up, I have lots of thoughts like what if he changed his mind, (means "many thoughts came in my mind) daghan nako og gihunahuna that time, and mainly about what if di (madayon akong kasal means "what if my wedding is off") no, (kauwaw ra gyud oy!means so shameful) So, I keep my tears from falling and went out and told my mom that we just went back home. At home, I was crying, bitter, and alone, I just put myself to sleep. After an hour of sleeping, my mom woke me up and said that Joel was on the phone, and they were on the hotel that I booked for them to stay. He was so worried that I wasn't there to pick them up, and he asked me if I were mad? [mad gud, sobra pa sa mad no! alangan kinsay di ma-mad intawon uroy!!means mad nope as in so mad whoever will be not so mad but i just pretended & say nope " ]But when I heard his voice, I just answered "no!" bakakon!"bakakon means liar " Well, I couldn't wait to see him though so I packed up my clothes and get ready to go to the hotel. And when I saw him, I was so happy, and I just hugged him. Also, I met his dad and everything seems so perfect. He's a nice person and he accepted me as warmth as I expected.

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Tuesday, February 19, 2008

Fil-am stories/"ate joy"/ USA



How we met, I was just graduated from college, busy hoping to find a job. But guess what I found a husband and not a job, because a cousin of mind introduce us with each other. Telling me that he was searching for somebody to be with, simple word a wife. Which at that time that was not in my mine. But because I was greedy I did not want to let him go, (good thing) communication, courting still going on for almost a year until I realized that I was falling in-love with him. We been married for 7 years now, bless with 2 beautiful girls. The more I get to know him the more I love him, no words can express. Only God knows.

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Fil-am stories/Shen of Nc


Hi Dear Readers

my name is Shen i am the eldest daughter of Mr. & Mrs. Ret. P/SINSP Arturo in Tipanoy, Iligan City Philippines. i am a college graduate batch 2006 in my alma matter dear St. Michael's College Iligan, by the course of Bachelor of Science in Commerce major in Information Manangement. 5 months after i graduated, i met "JIMMY" by chance in the dating website of AsianEuro.com with that, we started chatting regularly, sharing our thoughts, plan, ideas, etc.. untill we meet personally last September 3, 2006 in the airport of CDO city. so much happy to see each other, and during his birthday September 16, 2006 we got married. 2 hearts become as 1. :-) so now, i am very lucky, very happily married.nice.

Fil-am stories/"femikey"/Colorado



March 24, 2005. I meet a guy named Michael, a guy that i met online at Cherry Blossoms site. The first time I met him it seems like I’ve known him already a long time, he’s been so nice to me then we talk a lot that time, that’s the start of our relationship.

The days go by, we found each other talking online everyday and after few months he decided to go visit me in Davao, and that was last May 2, 2005. And that was a first time I met him personally at the airport. The feelings is so mutual on that day, we gave each other smile, a hug and a kiss. I introduced him to my family and to my niece also. He stayed with me together with my family for about 2 weeks.
May 7, 2005. Mike bought me a wedding ring and its really a surprise for me, I was not expecting it, but im so happy that time. Then after a week he went back to Silverthorne Colorado, and I felt so lonely coz his not here anymore but still lifes goes on. Eventhough were so far to each other but we still keep In touch through chatting and calling everyday.

Mike visit me 2nd time last October 2005, he stay for about 2 weeks. Then after 2months that was first week of December 2005, I receive a letter from the embassy and they give me already schedule for my medical examination appointment and also for my interview. So me and my sister went to manila to process everything.

So after my seminar on December 15, 2005. Mike and i worked out a schedule for my flight going to Colorado December 16. So I flew on December 17 with Northwest Airlines. So I came to San Francisco where we met again for the first time in the USA.

January 2, 2006. I labor our first baby named Dustin Michael at Summit Medical Center Dillon Colorado. He was 6lbs and 7 ounces. I’m so glad coz he came out a healthy and strong baby. Mike and I are so happy at that time to see our first cute baby boy. Months go by, everything goes well between me, mike and Dustin. I am already used to it with the cold weather here. The weather here is much different in my country, it is much colder here than there.

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Monday, February 18, 2008

True-to-life-stories- (life is not a fairytale...)

Just called me princess of the orient,23 years old,married to name Michael resident of U.S.A...3 times older than me...ha ha ha i'm sure of you guy's you're wondering why?I married him? heres our Love story...jarann jarannn Accidentally,he saw me one of the fastfood chain in "Gaisano Mall.He smiled at me and said hello. "Hi" so i said hello "He asked my contact number.I called you when i got home. So after that...he called me when he got home at ALABAMA,USA.He asked me to go online chatting that time.I agreed with him because he is so sweet & such a nice person that time that no woman could ever resisted him ohhh hush such display good qualities and even offered a help for go on internet online always. "I am just an ordinary girl & eldest of the family.We started our conversation online as the days passed by. "Time come he said,he like to marry me.I told him i asked my parents first.I told them that he wanted to marry me."so maybe because of our hardship my parents said yes" the even said"That's great"he will treat you as a princess because you're young & sexy,sweet young woman.Because he is Older than me 3 times my aged. "THEN I WAS THINKING "IF"THAT WILL HAPPEN I Live like a princess,Life which is full Of love & excitement plus adventure.I dream a life like that lol"So here i am USA. Get married with him expecting that he will love me with all his heart. "Few days passed since when i arrived here in usa.He slowly changed his attitude toward me.He always scolded me,insulted me a lot of times.He became moody everyday.I've cried a lot at night,without his knowledge.I go to the bathroom and cried.It is very painful"Because i was very wrong"This is not a life i wanted to be" "anyway i need to handle this things,it maybe some of you will not agreed with me.I just always remember my family way back home...Love me so much & they need me too. so i said to myself again and again this is just a test."Trials of my Life"its kinda "Survival of the fettist"or "Battle of survival" my mind said"I am not a coward" "Be brave""NO PAIN NO GLORY" lol. Honestly I LOVE MY HUSBAND.If Some people QUESTION ME OR said LIKE THIS “THAT I ONLY WANTED."A GOOD LIFE NOT LOVE” ALL I CAN SAY “IS NOT GOOD TO HAVE SEX TO OUR HUSBAND WITHOUT LOVE” AND I WILL DEFEND MY SELF “NO MAN CAN JUDGE ME ONLY GOD KNOWS WHAT I’M GOING THROUGH.SORRY If i SHARE a thoughts of strong emotion.Because i cried while typing my story.This is just a first chapter of my life". I’M NOT SAID THAT I’M NOT BLESSED , I’M STILL BLESSED BECAUSE THERES A LOT OF PEOPLE LOVES ME , MY FAMILY AND FRIENDS.I always remember the church song “COUNT YOUR BLESSING” AND WE SEE WHAT GOD HAS DONE. EVEN I’M DOWN BUT IM NOT HOPELESS WE HAVE GOD LOVES US , THAT WE CAN CARRY OUR SMILING FACE TO EACH IN EVERY ONE, LOVE YOU ALL, PRINCESS OF ASIA. Sorry guy's to dis-appoint you i asked ate sweetheart not to put my picture.If some of you might willing to be my friend just leave a comment here. Open to all comments & suggestions..."anyway" almost 8'months now here in United States of America.

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Sunday, February 17, 2008

Fil-am stories/leah/NEW YORK

We all have our own stories, we loved, we hated, we all have been hurt one way or another. In some ways we all have one thing in common, and that would be “ it could happen to you.”If I think about it, I never would have believed that an American guy from whom I've ‘met’ only few months ago in a site would come to Philippines for a week just to meet me! It was just about that time that I was finished with an 11 months relationship. Although everything was OK around me I felt a lack of someone in my life. I've decided ‘why not’ and out of curiosity I've placed a personal ad through a site when at first I find it funny website. I didn't have any specific ideas, basically I was curious to see who would respond to an ad like that since I've never met anyone before that on the Internet. Just for the sake of security I did put the sentence ‘im interested meeting people who are nice, respectful and god fearing’. The first message I received simply asked ‘I liked your profile. i was hoping we could chat?’ Since I was able to determine from the writer's address that he is from New York and I was interested in finding out about the country and the people who live there, I thought why not exchange emails with an American guy? That is how it began. His nickname was Dave and me was Leah the name meant the same thing as was his reason for choosing it. We continued to find many things in common as the e-mails went back and forth we were testing each other, getting to know one another and getting closer to each other. So much so that when he once jokingly mentioned that he was deadly in love with someone in the site where we met (he meant it as a joke because he was pertaining to me), my feelings became hurt. I thought he was just playing along and he wanted to break off our correspondence, that is, i was asking for time to think. By the time he won me back, I realized that this was serious. Anyway, I met this special man right there on the Internet. He was from Buffalo NY who work as US Officer. Somehow he was different from the other boys on the net. We talked a lot and it became obvious that we had a lot in common. We became more and more impressed with each other as the days and weeks went by. We ‘met’ almost on a daily basis in the chat and if that didn't work, then we wrote e-mails. It often happened that we thought of the same thing, we felt the common tie and that we are important to one another. Naturally, after a while we've exchanged pictures also and both of us liked the looks of the other. We've talked on the cell phone a few times and as a next step the situation had ripened to where we began to think we should meet in person. A month after he traveled to Philippines where he waited for me at the Heritage hotel. This was the first personal meet which; both of us are very excited. I really liked him and he seemed he like me too. It was terribly cold that day, so much so we gave each other’s a warm hug; we were so involved with each other. Our love grew each day and so we get married. We've not regretted anything. And I’m willing to move and to be with him forever! What I liked most about my husband, he truly listen to me, by sincerely understand my views. And not make me feel bad about any question I may ask. When he not agrees he explain why, so I understand. Dave has a good taste from clothes, perfume, shoes and he likes sports too. He is very friendly to everyone. Serious for a sensitive issue and yet has a funny humor. Also, he earn my trust so I feel safe with how his decision will be in best interest of our life together, and I will be true to obey his guidance.

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Fil-am stories/essa/Texas

David and I met online last February 2006 on a singles website. Since then we email back and forth (getting to know each other). Then we started chatting and talking everyday for 6-7 hours a day.
On May 19, 2006 David visited me and my family in Davao,Philippines. Finally were together. We've shared a lots of love, memories and stories together. A lots of fun too! He was there for 9 days. We went around davao city. I was so happy that night when he had hi proposal in HILLTOP...he surprised me of this ring im wearing..he said WILL YOU MARRY ME JES???? WILL U BE MY WIFE....i was shocked and dont know what to say...i was speechless and i hugged him so tight...then he asked WHAT'S YOUR ANSWER..then i said YES!!!! YES!!! YES!!!!
After 9 days of enjoynment together he flew back to US May 27,2006. I cried in the airport the time he disapppeared..the last words he said was "ADIOS MI AMOR"....with kisses in the air...
So the journey begins..the processing of our papers. I was a member of a website named visajourney dot com Our visa process took 7 months before i got my visa. That was February 15, 2007 i passed my interview in the US embassy.We were both happy!
March 2, 2007 i left Philippines to be with my fiance. From Davao to Manila, Manila to San Francisco, San Francisco to Dallas and Dallas to Austin...What a trip!!!! very long trip! That was exciting for me to have a trip alone. Bringing your suitcases with u then following others where to go. Just go with the flow!!!
Until in Austin Airport..the moment we've waited for..to see each other again..longing with his touch..longing with his embrace and kisses...longing with his LOVE...saw him and my in laws waiting for me...what a scene! so lovely..absolutely wonderful moment! he hugged me so tight and gave the roses..the roses are so lovely...his smile was perfect...and my in laws were wonderful...everything was wonderful to me.
We got married March 10, 2007. Civil wedding held in the house. Finally were married. We will have our marriage bless in June 2007 in a church in Rockport. And have our vows renewed in the Philippines in JUne 21st 2008 in "St. Francis of Asisi".

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Fil-am stories/"ja"/ California


I met my hubby when i used to work in Dubai, UAE. I didn't know that he already saw me soo many times whenever he passed by from the shop where i used to work and then December of 2001 he finally gave me a Christmas card through my coworker with a little photo of him and introducing himself. I was surprised and a little scared coz i didnt know that someone is already watching me.So then i asked my coworker who and where is that guy who hand her the Christmas card a few hours later he showed up and introduced himself. We became friends and getting to know him and knowing his intentions are and his asking permission from my parents (we used to call my family together in the Philippines), also asking permission from my aunt and all my relatives in Dubai we finally went dating on 2003.
And then after that we got engaged and then we set the date for our marriage April 2, 2005 which is also his Mom's birthday. And then i resigned my job waited in the Philippines for my immigrant visa and also i went back to school. And now, here I am in San Diego, CA soo blessed with a wonderful husband and a happy marriage for more than 2 years now and still counting.
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