Monday, February 18, 2008

True-to-life-stories- (life is not a fairytale...)

Just called me princess of the orient,23 years old,married to name Michael resident of U.S.A...3 times older than me...ha ha ha i'm sure of you guy's you're wondering why?I married him? heres our Love story...jarann jarannn Accidentally,he saw me one of the fastfood chain in "Gaisano Mall.He smiled at me and said hello. "Hi" so i said hello "He asked my contact number.I called you when i got home. So after that...he called me when he got home at ALABAMA,USA.He asked me to go online chatting that time.I agreed with him because he is so sweet & such a nice person that time that no woman could ever resisted him ohhh hush such display good qualities and even offered a help for go on internet online always. "I am just an ordinary girl & eldest of the family.We started our conversation online as the days passed by. "Time come he said,he like to marry me.I told him i asked my parents first.I told them that he wanted to marry me."so maybe because of our hardship my parents said yes" the even said"That's great"he will treat you as a princess because you're young & sexy,sweet young woman.Because he is Older than me 3 times my aged. "THEN I WAS THINKING "IF"THAT WILL HAPPEN I Live like a princess,Life which is full Of love & excitement plus adventure.I dream a life like that lol"So here i am USA. Get married with him expecting that he will love me with all his heart. "Few days passed since when i arrived here in usa.He slowly changed his attitude toward me.He always scolded me,insulted me a lot of times.He became moody everyday.I've cried a lot at night,without his knowledge.I go to the bathroom and cried.It is very painful"Because i was very wrong"This is not a life i wanted to be" "anyway i need to handle this things,it maybe some of you will not agreed with me.I just always remember my family way back home...Love me so much & they need me too. so i said to myself again and again this is just a test."Trials of my Life"its kinda "Survival of the fettist"or "Battle of survival" my mind said"I am not a coward" "Be brave""NO PAIN NO GLORY" lol. Honestly I LOVE MY HUSBAND.If Some people QUESTION ME OR said LIKE THIS “THAT I ONLY WANTED."A GOOD LIFE NOT LOVE” ALL I CAN SAY “IS NOT GOOD TO HAVE SEX TO OUR HUSBAND WITHOUT LOVE” AND I WILL DEFEND MY SELF “NO MAN CAN JUDGE ME ONLY GOD KNOWS WHAT I’M GOING THROUGH.SORRY If i SHARE a thoughts of strong emotion.Because i cried while typing my story.This is just a first chapter of my life". I’M NOT SAID THAT I’M NOT BLESSED , I’M STILL BLESSED BECAUSE THERES A LOT OF PEOPLE LOVES ME , MY FAMILY AND FRIENDS.I always remember the church song “COUNT YOUR BLESSING” AND WE SEE WHAT GOD HAS DONE. EVEN I’M DOWN BUT IM NOT HOPELESS WE HAVE GOD LOVES US , THAT WE CAN CARRY OUR SMILING FACE TO EACH IN EVERY ONE, LOVE YOU ALL, PRINCESS OF ASIA. Sorry guy's to dis-appoint you i asked ate sweetheart not to put my picture.If some of you might willing to be my friend just leave a comment here. Open to all comments & suggestions..."anyway" almost 8'months now here in United States of America.

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3 comments:

prily said...

Hello...i read your story and reflect about it. Yes, it is true not all of us who married a foreigner are lucky. In fact when i arrived in Uk the last time,there was one Filipina who committed suicide because of depression.Anyway,hope to get in touch with u.And, please,please be strong. I know you are!

Proud Filipina married to foreigner said...

yes,prily she is very strong lady i always give her advise to hang-on and don't do foolish decision that she may regret later on.,right now she knows how to drive and soon she will get a job.I'm praying for her always she said she's okie but sometimes she cried alam muna hehehe "but she is fine" nilalabas lang niya sama ng loob and share somebody na hindi lahat --masaya--buhay natin sa abroad.

Thanks for ur advice--makakarating sa kanya.

Anonymous said...

hi my name is marya ann i live in united kingdom for about 12 years now, i have 9 years old boy and married to an scottish guy for about nearly 13 years,i had a very hard upbringing in the phillipines my parents are very violent to each other so i went and work in the bar for almost nearly my entire childhood, meet loads of foreign people some are genuine and some are users,my dream is to meet a foreigner and take me abroad, my dream did came true, but the same as me my adviced to all pilipina who are going to marry a foriegn guy is please do not expect miracle and easy life, i have not an easy life since i was a child but at least marrying my husband did my life a lot better and i thank god for it, since i arrived in britain i worked very hard never rely on my husband, love your husband the way they are its not because he change some similarity to me sometimes they put you on trial they want to see how honest and strong you are if you give up easily they know that you only after something,be patience and times come when they trust you you will find it is very easy,while i look after my son and my husband i went to university and study nursing and social work i am now a professional on my own strive, some of the pilipina like yourself no offend you expect a life of royalty life in foreign place its not like that every american and westener guy is the same ordinary citizen that work hard for a living my advice to you do not cried do something to make yourself better like i did, in return your husband and thier families will respect for you for ever, i am very happy and contend even my husband send all my family to college and university and buy myself and mum a property when he never think of it before, it will takes time life will get better for you if you are patience dont expect a lot and miracle that you will becoming princess because you are young life does not work like that.

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